So today am in a very bad mood yea it’s not common,ask those who know me …I know you want to know what is it that has made me this moody today.By the way i don’t look good when am in a bad mood.Do you know how hard its is to be mad at yourself rather than someone else? or Being mad at something stupid you said or did?….You should try it because i cant give you the full feeling of it.Besides someone wise said that we should learn from the experience of others,right? choose your path wisely.
I was to tell you why am mad,yea, someone is mad at mesomeone special for that matter.Yesterday i did something silly and stupid at the same time(stupid-great lack of common sense) not that i lack common sense i do,so don’t start getting ideas.I lacked a virtue;patience to be precise:a common or rather uncommon virtue of the gentleman of our generation.
How much as a guy do you exercise patience?how long can you wait?Ladies how long can he wait for you?It does not matter the occasion but does he wait long enough or better yet does he wait at all? So this forms my topic today ,,,where is the Gentleman?
Most of the guys today are not gentlemen..i know what every guy reading this post is about to ask me..what makes a gentleman?i will come to that in a bit but first things first…what are we doing?
Nowadays all we do in a r
So here it is rules to being a gentleman:
- be polite- in short don-t be rude simple
- Good mannerism- we all know what manners means right.
- comfort her always-this does not mean only in matters that concern you and her but her and her.
- honesty – we have been taught honesty since our childhood days and i need not to elaborate more.be honest period.
- compliment her- here we have a situation…there is a huge difference between complimenting her and making suggestive remarks. A compliment is a polite expression of praise or admiration,whereas a suggestive remark is a suggestive remark(is suggests thing that you should not as a gentleman.
- Be a good listener-listen more than you talk.Ladies love to talk and be that ear that your lady needs.
- Have a good hygiene-be clean and my friend dress well.make her proud to be associated with you.
- Open doors and hold her sit – Yes,now this is iit means so much to her when you open doors for her thou she may not show it and it also gives a hidden message to the fisi’s that she is yours .
- Apologies when you are wrong
- Let her order first
- pay the bill
if we follow this am sure we will have healthy relationships…
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